‘I’ the Woman!

Posted: March 8, 2017 in Life, Love, Nature, Patience, Peace, self love, Writing
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On this day, the world wants to celebrate the womanhood.

My question is, why just one day?

Why does our worth needs to be realized just once every year?

Being a woman, i know am strong, i know i can do anything to everything but yet i am restricted, am not allowed to do anything.

Not because i cant do it or i don’t want to, but, its not what the world, this society, my culture or my religion would allow me to do.



They like us to be weak, they like us to  be vulnerable so that they can feel powerful. So that they can always have somebody to point their finger to when they loose, when they are frustrated, when they are clueless.

That’s what they think our existence is for. To help them feel powerful, to help them feel motivated because they know we are giving enough to loose, just to let them win and let them have that self contentment.



But, for I, the women, that is where my power lies.

I know, if i can help you win and stand up then i can always stand aside and let you fall.

If i have the courage to loose and still smile then imagine what i can do for my own self with the same power that i vest out in the world.



Its just that the instincts given to me and how i am made that stops me from being selfish, that stops me from putting myself first.

I have it in my blood to give out, to help others win the battle and make this world a better place to live.



I dont demand any dollars as they are mere a piece of papers  to fulfill any of my dreams or my desires,

I dont foresee mercy from the world as this world runs because of ME,,

Its not the worship i seek like rest of the world demands,

Its just ME that i want to live and want to BE!!

Sometimes i feel that women live in the shadows. As its assumed that for everything they do, they should seek approval.

And god forbid, if they did something on their own then its so rebellious.

They cant sleep when they want, cant eat what they wish as they might not look good enough. They are judged for their clothes, for their drinks.



Why is there no equality?

Why does the house needs to be taken care by a woman? Why cant man and woman equally take care of the house?

If she is the lady of the house and should look after each and every bit then why cant he being man of the house equally take care of it?

The world, the society has divided us deep from the core that even though a man wants to help but they cant.

You know why? Because other men around him would judge him, would pass on their male chauvinistic judgments to appear more powerful and belittle them.



Its all about one little part of human body that can bring the change. And that part is your brains, you rewire it to think in a different way and everything will change.

Not even on this day the eve teasing, rape or molesting would stop then why celebrate it?



Celebrate it on the day when you know your wife, your daughter, your sister, your mother is treated well in the world and is not judged for she being herself.

That is when this day would mean something or will be worth celebrating!


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